Tuesday, 24 May 2016

Ambivalence

A confused, low  voice asks everyone possible - "what do you think?". A panic arises, a feeling of anxiety. The edge between right and wrong seems to diminish. A number of factors decides the intensity and reasons for this anxiety. One  of them is age. Abilities develop with age. This age I am talking about, is not physical but mental. The general metric to measure mental age is the level of maturity.Your mindset decides your level of ambivalence. Taking decision is always a malevolence. We never like to take decisions but always have to, there is no way out. A higher dilemma commences after the decision is taken.The dilemma before decision is intact. Always stays there. Our maturity makes a difference in the dilemma after taking the decision. With age you learn to appreciate your decision. No choice is 100 % correct. There are always pros and cons. Tackling those, making a wise choice and then further implementing it with smug is what makes a human wise. Life never spares us. It has needs. It need us to be better and better. Well that is the beauty of  living. All these makes life worth living. Live life to the best by being the best. 'perfect' the word is just an illusion. there is no such thing. Just keep learning. Don't be afraid. Take decisions. Trust yourself. Be you...!